Link a date

Plan a date or start a private chat.

Plan a date and send a private link. The other person answers yes, no or suggests another time and then you can chat about the details. No account or personal details. A password is optional: it keeps the date private between the two of you.

Start planning

Just want to talk first? Press “Chat only” for a private chat with no day or time.

Dates and chats are deleted automatically, 7 days after the date or the last message.

Also: private rooms for communities, and permanent links with a free account. See the FAQ.

For adults, 18 or older. Keep it respectful: the person you invite can block and delete the date at any time.

Your link

* marks a required field.

Shown in the chat. If empty, your messages are marked "Message".

“Chat only” makes a private chat that deletes itself, with no day or time. The chat opens when the other person joins.

Date and time

Offer more than one option

Not sure which time suits them? Offer up to 4 times. They choose one when they accept. A label or place left empty is the same as above.

Letters and numbers only, 6 to 40 characters. Leave it empty and anyone with the invitation link can open the date. With a password, the person you invite needs it too.

By creating a date or a chat you agree to the terms of use.