Plan a date or start a private chat.
Make a date and send a private link. The other person answers yes or no, or suggests another time. Then you can chat about the details. No account or personal details. A passphrase is optional: it keeps the date private between the two of you.
Just want to talk first? Press “Chat only” for a private chat with no day or time.
Dates and chats are deleted automatically, 7 days after the date or the last message.
Also: private rooms for communities, and permanent links with a free account. See the FAQ.
For adults, 18 or older. Keep it respectful: the person you invite can block and delete the date at any time.
Your date is ready
There are two private links. Save the second one, because it is the only way to manage the date, and it cannot be recovered.
Tell them the passphrase another way, not in the same message as the link. It cannot be recovered later, but you can set a new one with Change the details.