Plan a date or start a private chat.
Plan a date in a minute and send one private link. The other person says yes, no, or suggests another time, and then you can chat about the details. No account is needed, and the passphrase keeps it between the two of you.
Met someone online? Send them one short message with your private link, and keep the rest here, without sharing your phone number or any personal details.
Press “Chat only” for a private chat that deletes itself, with no accounts.
Nothing is kept for long: a date and its chat are deleted 7 days after the date, and a private chat 7 days after its last message. A handle you stop using is deleted after 90 days.
Part of a community? Make a private room, a board where members post invitations and others ask to join. Each request becomes its own private chat.
Want a link to share in a profile, a comment or an ad? Make a handle, with no email, and keep up to 5 permanent links at link.date/yourname. Each request becomes its own private date or chat.
For adults, 18 or older. Keep it respectful: the person you invite can block and delete the date at any time.
Your date is ready
There are two private links. Save the second one, because it is the only way to manage the date, and it cannot be recovered.
Tell them the passphrase another way, not in the same message as the link. It cannot be recovered later, but you can set a new one with Change the details.